Do you have a family law attorney?
If not, you need one. You need to use this website to find someone you can talk to about this situation and discuss possible strategies.
We would be happy to talk to you at our firm.
In no way am I offering you legal advice, and in no way has my comment created an attorney-client relationship. You are not to rely upon my note above in any way, but insted need to sit down with counsel and share all relevant facts before receiving fully-informed legal advice. If you want to be completely sure of your rights, you must sit down with an experienced criminal defense attorney to be fully aware of your rights.
I agree with Dan that you need a family law attorney and I am referring all of my clients to him due to some health concerns that I am having, so yo could not be in better hands.
The information provided in this answer does not create an attorney-client relationship and is not considered to be legal advice.