Dad has not had visitation with kids in 3 years, although he has visitation rights in place. I moved with my almost 16 yr. old out of county, and the Dad filed contempt. I volunteered to move back before court, yet he went through with the hearing, and I was sentenced to jail, probated for 3 years, told to move back, and to pay his attorney fees. This is a first contempt for me, and seems a bit excessive since I had already volunteered to "purge" myself of the contempt. Is this a "normal" thing, or does it seem excessive?