If the facts are as you stated, that is such a serious conflict of interest that a lawyer could be suspended or disbarred.
Do two things on Monday: (1) Get a lawyer and discuss whether you lawyer should file a motion to disqualify opposing counsel with the court. (2) Contact the General Counsel of the State Bar of Georgia and request a bar complaint form.
There are some conflicts that are close calls. This one, if you've described it accurately, isn't.
Here is your contact info for the state bar:
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HUGE Conflict of interest -- not waivable. I don't see how that lawyer could represent your ex-wife in this matter, even with your written consent. You NEED to talk to a Georgia lawyer ASAP.
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Oh my yes. One of the clearest I have ever seen.
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