No lawyer can responsibly tell you what to do without being retained to do so. There are a lot of facts that need to be considered in the preparation of final divorce pleadings and a property settlement, as you are discovering. If you want competent advice, you will have to retain a competent attorney.
You'll have to do whatever the mortgage company and the local real estate law requires. Consulting with a local real estate attorney would be a good start.
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