You really need to sit down with a local attorney in order to see if the two of you are actually "common law" married and will need to go through a divorce. If you were considered married, everything changes and you would have an interest in the house and appreciation in the value of items that were purchased during the course of the marriage. Best wishes
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You have no rights as a member of a "united couple". That has no legal meaning. You are not on title to the property and he made all the payments. Therefore, you have no rights as a landowner. You only have rights to the property and to support if you were actually part of a "MARRIAGE".
IF your families and colleagues understood that you were his "WIFE" then you may have rights as his spouse. In that case, you may be entitled to a division of the increase in value of the property during the common-law marriage. You might be entitled to spousal support for some period of time and division of other property acquired during the marriage.
It is not clear whether you and he ever lived in the same house. If you did not ever live in the same house, then you cannot create a common-law marriage. However, there is no minimum period of cohabitation to establish marriage.
You may want to hire an attorney and determine whether you have enough evidence of marriage to file for divorce.
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