I live in Massachusetts and my son and his mother live in Greenville South CArolina. I have been layed off since November. I have been in contact with child suport services since i was let go. I am having a problem paying the full amount of support ordered. I have asked to have it ammended. I have been served with papers to go to court because I am behind in my support. I have called the child support divison and the court stating that it is a hard ship for me to have to fly there, rent a car and hotel. If I could afford that I would pay my child support. Is there any legal standing for me to not have to appear????