Suing them is not the answer. I am assuming there is a case in your local juvenile court. Get an attorney (one can be appointed to you if your are eligible) and fight the abuse case. If you are a parent you have constitutional rights and the govt cannot take your kids away without proving the matter asserted by child services. In addition, if you have not already pled guilty, get an atty for your DV case. These charges are serious and we never agree to plead to that unless they change it to disorderly conduct or something else.
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