I don't know how much longer I can take the mental abuse from my boyfriend. We have two kids together and I just try so hard to be strong , just take it and make it work but some days are so wearing. My main problem is we have 4 credit cards ALL in my name with a total balance of about $15,000.00. If I leave I would be unable to pay. He refuses to pay me child support if I leave, he said he would quit his job and work side jobs before he would let me leave and him hand over money to me. Could I get a job, yes but I would need child care and help from the state and such to do so.... I feel stuck, I have never been late on a payment for anything. At this point I could care less about losing my okay credit score. I just want to know there is an option for me to maybe have a happy life.