Yes, the judge can absolutely dictate where visitation can occur, this is not a restriction on Dad's freedom, it is a restriction on where visitation is to take place. Without more information it is difficult for me to say what your options are. Do you have a temporary or permanent order? Did you not express the desire to have visitation occur elsewhere, say meet half way to exchange child so that visitation could occur at your home? You may wish to speak with an attorney to discuss what your options may be to modify this order.
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Unfortunately for you, this is within the Judge's discretion. However, as the other attorney has stated, you can always go before the court and explain the circumstances to ask for a modification. Going back to court is always an expense, but so is having to get a hotel, etc. every two weeks. It's a tough situation, but there may be options for you. Contact an attorney to help guide you through it.