This is not a criminal matter but I urge you to retain a probate attorney in Oregon to find out what is happening with the estate and possibly file a motion to remove the executor if he is not fulfilling his duties to the estate.
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While you can call the Probate court and request copies of all filed documents (for a fee of course) this will only tell you part of the story.
Seek legal counsel to represent you and find out all relevant facts to help you determine what courses of action there are and what you want to do.
You need to take action. There are many remedies available. Some include payment of attorney's fees for having to get the executor off the case or do what is required. Talk to an Oregon probate attorney.