This is a very confusing post. I am assuming you lent the money for the car saying verbally it was a gift and later rescinding the gift and demanding payment. Also, the friend seemed to have done the same thingm with the phone. Verbal agreements on money lent are very weak arguments and sometimes are not enforced by the courts. The phone text messages are part of the evidence which might support your version. But if he is texting back to you that he disagrees with your interpretation, the text messages may work against you as well as for you. Your best recourse is to sue in special civil part.
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