These cases are intensely fact based. Also, you don't say if this is a divorce case or a DCF case, but the statutes and the standards are different. You really need to sit down with a lawyer, not a paralegal, and go over the facts of your case as well as where you are procedurally in order to get any kind of advice on how to deal with this situation. These situations are very serious, and in some cases can lead to criminal charges, so you really should not be trying to handle this on your own.
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