Your friend is playing with fire. If there has been no sexual activity, there is no second degree rape, but immaturity and hormones being what they are, it's a dangerous dance. The younger party, at 14, male or female, can not consent to sexual contact. and the whole notion of everything but intercourse can actually bring about more serious charges.
Time for your friend to leave middle school youth in the past and join the adult world, lest your friend end up in a very different adult society than the one he hopes for..
Attempted rape, Solicitation, Contributing to the Delinquency of a Minor are a few possible charges. Of course, the possible charges are all fact dependent, and may or may not apply, depending on the various things that might have been said. The age of 16 years is the age of consent in Oklahoma. (Fourteen is the age of consent if the actor is UNDER the age of 18 years, and the sexual conduct was with "consent" of the victim. There is the possibility that NO charges could be brought against him too. In any event, if he is charged with an offense, or even investigated, he needs to exercise his right to an attorney and NOT make any verbal or written statements, or answer any questions without an attorney. DEMAND AN ATTORNEY and make sure he understands NOT to make ANY statements. He also does not need to be talking to any body else or putting this on social media. (Twitter, Facebook, MySpace, etc.) Good Luck
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