Some states like NJ have a "collateral estoppel" rule which bars insurance companies from attaching onto awards from liability suits. In NJ only insurers permitted by statute or ERISA may go after such awards. I am not familiar with the rules in Cal,but I suspect any personal injury lawyer in your state can tell you what the "subrogation"rights of the insurance company is. Subrogation is the process by which an insurer can seek recompense for payments made to their insured.
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My understanding is if your son's estate made a claim against the defendant, then the insurance company can try to recover for the medical expenses it paid for. However, if you made a claim as a survivor against the defendant, then that wrongful death cause of action is personal to you.
If the insurance wants to recover for medical expenses they need to make a claim against your son's estate.
I am sorry to hear of the loss of your son. To answer your question, your claim was for wrongful death. You were not a party to the insurance contract. Therefore, you do not have to reimburse the health insurance carrier out of your wrongful death settlement.
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