You should find a new place to live. Your mother has no legal obligation to maintain you and your family in her home. She has the ability to legally put you out, though it is arguably through an unlawful detainer action.
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I agree with Ms. Lindquist. In fact you might come home one afternoon to find your belongings on the side of the road with the garbage can. Have you thought of finding a job?
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