when i was 14 i became friends with an 18 year old and we fell in love. we the had sex. we werent thinking about the age difference all we knew is that we loved each other and wanted to be together. My mom found out and stopped our relationship immediately. Over a year later my father found out and has filed a report with the police. i still love him and i do not want anything bad to happen to him. he is also trying to get my mom arrested for not going to the police. can she be arrested? also my father recorded me saying i had sex with him without telling me he was or me giving permission. he said he didnt have to because i am a minor? is this true. also he has emails between us and i have to go to the police station to give my report today. would it make the situation any better if i do not say anything to the police even with what my father has or would it make it worse? or would it not matter either way.