It is highly unlikely that your mom would be arrested, as she didn't commit any offense. You ex on the other hand can be facing some serious trouble. First things first, I suggest that you advise him as to what is going on and tell him to get an attorney ASAP. To the extent you want to help him, you can discuss how to proceed with his attorney. In the meantime, you are under no obligation whatsoever to speak with the police. Keep in mind that at this point they may not have legally sufficient and admissible proof that you ever had sex. By talking to the police you may be giving them exactly what they need to move forward against your ex. If you do speak to the police, don't lie as that would get you into trouble.
If you do not want to make any statements to the police that is your choice. But make sure that if you do end up reporting anything to the police, you do not lie as that could be an offence of making a false report to the police. Your mom is very unlikely to be in trouble for not reporting the crime.
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Statutory Rape laws vary from state to state and in cases, even from county to county. In order to be certain a crime has possibly been committed, you need to know the local laws.
The variance in the laws comes from local culture. In many places in the world, age of sexual consent is 16, or even younger, and in many places it's 18. There's a huge difference between a woman making love to a man when he's 17 years, 10 months and she's 18 years 1 month, and a case wherein the victim is 13 and the subject is almost 18. This difference is reflected in the law and the various decisions over the years, that have flexed to meet the carefully recorded circumstances of the event
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