You need to get him out of the house and bar him from wasting martial assets.You need to talk with a family lawyer about how to do it in Il, or there will be nothing left when you finally get around to divorcing.
You need to get to an attorney and file for divorce asap so the attorney can start protecting your assets. Hurry before everything ends up in overseas accounts or hidden somewhere.
My standard disclaimer: I am not offering legal advice, assume I do
not know the law in your state or at all for that matter and that I am
just making suggestions for starting points for when you do speak with
an attorney. Do NOT rely on anything I write and contact a lawyer in
your area immediately after reading my posting.
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