My ex does not pay child support and rarely visits our 5 year-old, who wants nothing to do with him. My husband wants to adopt her and also we want to move because he is a military contractor outside of the country as a family with our son. My ex has never had custody, and signed a previous document at child support stating that if he was a non-custodial parent and he would provide insurance if he had a job that had one (for medicaid purposes only) but then I closed the case when my husband got insurance on our daughter. Can I get a passport without his consent? Can I have my husband, who has raised her since 18 months, adopt my child? Please help.