Is your Order from California? If so and mom "disappears" you would want to contact the DA Child Abduction Unit and a family law attorney ASAP.
In the mean time, I believe she cannot get a passport without your signature, but that is based on my experience in the States. You could contact the agency that would issue the passport and ask them what the rules are.
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