Unlikely that he gets joint custody or more visitation. Consult with a local lawyer to help you. If anything you should file a petition for supervised visitation and request that an sttorney be appointed to represent the child. Request that the father receive counseling and parenting skills class before he sees the child.
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The facts that you presented do not appear to me that he would get shared custody, if anything supervised visitation to see how that goes, please work with a local attny and take good care of yourself.
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You should consult with an experienced family attiorney to determine all of your options. Counsel is correct, he most likely will not get shared custody.
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From the facts presented, it is very unlikely (dare I say impossible) that he would get joint custody. The court does not impose joint custody without agreement of both parties---and will not do so when there are orders of protection, even if the parties agreed to it. You indicate that you have an OP against him for the next 10 years, and that he is on probation. That is unusually long time for an OP. I'm assuming that he is on probation for a crime committed against you. You should be careful about putting your son in a dangerous situation (as you described), lest you should be charged with neglect. If the court orders visitation, abide by the court orders. Otherwise, put your child's safety first.
You should absolutely be represented by an attorney. If you don't qualify for court appointed counsel, hire one.
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