My daughters father is seeking legitimation/ joint custody. He does pay child support however he's not consistent in spending time with her. The inconsistency has led to her not always wanting to see him or and latching onto my legs begging not to go with him, especailly overnight.I have given her a stable home life that is safe. His tenative visitation plan with bring all of this stability to an end. His plan fits his needs and not the best interst of our child. He was has severd time in a fed. prison for drug trafficking, and has prior histoy of substance abuse. Based on evidence and his lavish life style I suspect that he is dealing drugs again. I fear for her safety. Should i get a lawyer and try to limit his visitation and custidy request. Dads have rights, but what about moms!