Can my ex get 50% custody of our child? During the first two years he came aroud to see our child once a week for an hour. He didn't pay any child support the first year and during the 2nd year he paid me $200 a month on his own. The 3rd year he was shipped off to Iraq for a year and when he came back our child was 4 and we decided to do everyother weekend and rotating holidays. This year the army has sent him out of state for training 3x and he is expected to go to afganistan next year. He wants to take me to court for 50% custoday because his live in girlfriend has been showering with our child and I refuse to allow her to go over. I did tell him he can come over and visit anytime he wanted to see our child. Also, he was arrested for a DUI last month.I forgot to mention (not sure if it matters) our child is 6 years old. With the information that my child has told me about her father's girlfriend I did report it to the local police but they only said that even though it was enough information it was just not enough to make any arrests. my baby's daddy and I do not have any legal agreement and he is always threatening to take me to court whenever he doesn't get his way. I'm the one who has been making all the major decisions in her life since she has been born. I pay for health insurance, I take her to school and doctor appointments. When she is sick I am the one who stays home from work to care for her. I would like to get sole custody but still will be willing to allow him visitations provided that his girlfriend is not allowed around my child because of what she has done. What are my odds?
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