Wife or landlord cannot enter your home whenever they want. When you rent a home, for that period of time, it is as if it is your home. The landlord and it's agents cannot enter your home without your consent. Try to be on time with your rent, 2-3 days late is not unreasonable but the Landlord is entitled to ontime rent which you agree to pay at a certain day every month.
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What is "reasonable notice" before entering?
You should set standards for your landlord to follow. Write your landlord a letter making clear your expectations. You might demand one to three days written or verbal advance notice for permission to enter. The landlord's request should state who is entering, at what time, and for what reason. You have the right to be present whenever someone enters and the right to refuse entry.
If it is not an emergency, and your landlord enters without permission or notice, she or he is trespassing. Potential remedies include calling the police at the time the illegal entry occurs and withholding rent the next time it is due. Write a letter explaining that you are withholding rent until the landlord stops entering without permission and agrees to set terms for entering. Keep a copy of this letter. Put your rent money into a savings account until you are able to work out a reasonable agreement and you feel sure your landlord will not violate your privacy. Then negotiate your compensation for the privacy invasions.
If we do not have a signed fee agreement I am not your attorney and this is not legal advice.
I would look closely at any lease that was signed. The terms of the lease could provide for random inspection at reasonable hours. It might also provide for the showing of the home if listed for sale. I would encourage you to consult with a real estate attorney in the Flint area legal community. If you do not know any real estate attorneys, you could contact the Genessee County Bar Association which could make a referral to such an attorney.
Neil M. Colman
Mr. Colman is licensed to practice law in Michigan. The response herein is not legal advice and does not create an attorney/client relationship. The response is in the form of legal education and is intended to provide general information about the matter within the question. Oftentimes the question does not include significant and important facts and timelines that, if known, could significantly change the reply and make it unsuitable. Mr. Colman strongly advises the questioner to confer with an attorney in your state in order to ensure proper advice is received.