If your husband agrees, the hearing may be able to be adjourned, although probably for not more than a few months. If your husband agrees, the case can be dismissed and then filed again later if the reconciliation doesn't work. Finally, if the divorce is granted, you can remarry, although this may have an effect on pension rights, among other things.
I am licensed to practice law in Michigan and Virginia and regularly handle cases of this sort. My answering your question does not establish an attorney-client relationship. You should consult a lawyer so you can tell the lawyer the entire situation and get legal advice that is precisely tailored to your case.