Plaintiff for small claims has been harassing me. I tried to file a restraining order against her, but because she is very manipulative and rambled on for about 5 minutes at our hearing with a bunch of out of context character references and then cried, restraining order got denied. I don't want to speak to this person; they intimidate me. I don't know what to do. I don't want to pretrial conference with them, because they scare me, and all they do is threaten me and take everything that I say against me and threaten more charges. Do I have any recourse?