Absolutely. It works best to lawyer up because you have victim rights that will conflict with contempt of court charges. But an experienced attorney is likely to get you out of any penalty.
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I totally agree with Mr. Cernyer, I have represented girlfriends who want to take back the accusations on many court appearances.
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You didn't press charges - the DA did. You can't drop them - only the DA can.
But you do have rights not to testify under certain circumstances. You'll need your own attorney to enforce your rights though.
You can also apply for a domestic violence restraining order to keep him away from you.
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