Unwritten contracts are usually worth the paper they are written upon.
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If you wrote her a check you can prove the loan. If other people know about it that will strengthen your case. It sounds like you will have to file a small claims suit against her. Be prepared for her to call it a gift or deny receiving the money if it was paid in cash.
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