I was being recorded several times without my knowledge and now this person is using it to destroy my life playing the recordings to other individuals and ruining relationships its causing me severe stress and anxiety
You can sue for defamation.
The truth is an absolute defense to defamation and opinions are almost never considered defamatory.
Whether or not the recording was legally made depends on facts and details not in your post (like how captured and whether the person capturing the recordings was a participant in the discussion and whether there was legally recognized expectation of privacy).
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