I'm sorry to hear you're having such challenges. Unfortunately, there is no good answer for you other than saying you should speak to a family lawyer.
That being said, your question of "Can I sue" is really "Should I sue". Anyone can sue anyone, but that doesn't mean there is actually a case or that the claim won't be dismissed.
Suing your soon-to-be-ex for $500.00 and "dragging your name through the mud" is not really a claim, particularly when you agreed to be a co-signer/co-debtor on whatever it is that he needed to pay.
Reach out and try to work this out with him. You may need a family lawyer for the bigger issue of the pending divorce, and perhaps the $500 could be addressed in that forum.
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File a an action for dissolution of marriage. Technically these bills are marital in nature and are divided 50-50. Allege in your Petition that the Court should depart from an equal split and consider a disparate distribution since your husband ran up these bills in your name wihtout your permission and after the separation. You must swear to the facts in the Petiiton . It would be a good idea to have a lawyer help you. If you are not going to do that at least read Florida Statute 61.075. You can find it on the Florida Senate website. Good Luck.
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