My daughter is in the 1st grade.She was molested by her father a San Jose police officer at the age of 1.She suffers with emotional issues.I told the school when she started kindergarten.This year she has missed a lot of school due to normal illness,as well as chronic bladder infections,crying saying she hates school.Some with Dr's notes/some days without.Also I gave the school her therapist contact information in case they need advice on any issues that may come up.
The school called CPS & told them they thought I was to blame for my daughters emotional problems causing her to act out at school..
CPS did a home visit & talked with me & checked the house & advised me to look into getting an even higher qualified therapist & support group for myself.& case closed.When I confronted the school they denied making the CPS report,but the worker told me the school called.
& Truancy letters,3 to date.I'm being told I can be fined & jailed for my daughter missing school.I called the district office requesting the school phycologist get involved & she has,as well a counselor that meets with Emily every Friday at the school.We have a new highly qualified therapist who has met with the school.& the next problem I just found out about Monday night..My daughter told me one of the kids at school hit her twice on her back & that it happens a lot & they call her names.She was crying & tried to tell the substitute teacher,but she was talking & didn't hear her.I called Tuesday am informing the school of what had happened & I was keeping her home,giving them time to tell her normal teacher & talk to her classmates without her there.The principle called the therapist leaving a message stating that "Emily was never hit by one of her classmates that her mother must have done it,it happened at home not school".
& with that information in mind I called the CPS worker for her input on the bullying problem & the school unwilling to help.She told me as well as our therapist to take her to the doctor to be check so there is a record.& CPS told me to call the district office if the school does nothing.(I did not tell the CPS worker what the principle had said to our therapist)I need to get legal help with this fight,it has become a roadblock for my child to learn & a painful reminder of what was done to her at the hand of her father.& how dare they point the finger at me,accusing me of harming my child.They are putting so much stress & emotional suffering on our family & it has to stop.