Schedule a consultation with an experienced immigration attorney in order to explore your options.
Mr. Shusterman is a former INS Trial Attorney (1976-82) with over 35 years of immigration experience. His response to your question is general in nature, as not all the facts are known to him. You should retain an attorney experienced in immigration law to review all the facts in your case in order to receive advice specific to your case. Mr. Shusterman's statement above does not create an attorney/client relationship.
As Mr. Shusterman suggested, you would benefit from a consultation with an immigration lawyer. I am sorry but your situation is too complex to evalaute on a forum like this.
This answer is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice.
There may be ways to help you, but I would need much more information to be able to give you any specific advice.
Gregory Romanovsky, Esq.
12 Marshall Street
Boston, MA 02108