Unfortunately, if the child is of the marriage, you will not be able to relocate over the objection of the Father without a full trial as to whether the relocation is in the best interests of the child. The house has a community property component to it so he has a community property interest in the house. Unless you can buy him out of his interest in the house, the Judge may indeed order that the house be sold. I hope you intend to hire counsel because from what you have written, it is apparent that you are ill-equipped to prosecute this type of case without counsel. There are some very complex issues here which you have not addressed.
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If the Dissolution Decree requires you to sell the house, you will have to sell. The court has the power to decide whether, and how, a house must be sold. If the market value is less than the loan on the house, there is no equity to divide with your husband. For that reason, the court will probably award the house to you, require you to make payments, and order your husband to quit claim the house to you. You would then be free to rent it out. Relocation with the child would be subject to court approval if your husband is the father.
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The first two attorneys gave good answers. Of course, not everything is required to go to trial. If you and your husband can reach an agreement, it will make things pretty simple. Just remember that you will need either the court's approval or the father's written agreement to relocate your child out of the school district. You might also want to get advice about whether it would make more sense to give the house back to the bank if the rent you would get is less than the mortgage payment.
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