Unless there is an error on the birth certificate, you will need to go to Court. You will have to give the other parent notice of your request to change your son's name OR show the court that the other parent consents to the change/there is no other parent/the other parent has no parental rights.
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If you want to change his legal name, then yes, you have to go to court.
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