my bf and i were drinking and that caused an argument . we both have tempers and the alcohol cause me to get angry and get physical with him. like any person would when they feel attacked he acted back and punched me. i called the cops and they didnt arrest him but they did file charges againts him. they issued a warrant and arrested him within a week when i tried to visit him in jail, they said we couldnt have any contact with each other because of a (epo) emergency protective order. is there anything i can do .. this is his second saault on a fam, mem. the prior one had nothing to do with me.