It isn't necessary to wait for confirmation to ask to lift the stay...assuming you have the basis to do so. Hope this perspective helps!
Oh my, from the nature of your questions, you do need the assistance of counsel. You can move to lift the stay at any time, but you must have grounds to do so. The plan is not confirmed at the creditors meeting. If you received notice and the plan is confirmed and you do not take the proper steps to protect your interest, you are bound. I hope you find counsel to assist you.
You need a basis for lifting the stay. You don't state why you think you should get the relief. More needs to be known about what is going on. Talk with an attorney.
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