You need to review the latest custody order and what it says about moving the child. Most orders prohibit a custodial parent from moving out of the county where they lived at the time the order was issued, unless the other parent agrees or the court gives permission.
Even if there is no such prohibition, you still want to be careful. You share joint legal custody, and he has equal say as to what school she attends. Your move would change that, and he doesn't agree. Have you tried offering to transport the child to visits, to eliminate the additional cost and time that he would suffer from your move?
To be on the safe side, you should file a motion for a change to the current custody/visitation order, including the right to move. The new order should address not only the move and a new visitation schedule, but also the transportation responsibilities (who, how far, where, who pays, etc.). Given the length of time it takes to get such an order, you should file now so that hopefully you will have an answer by the time you want to move.
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First, YOU do not know what your current orders are. You say the timeshare is 50 - 51%. That is a mathamatical impossibility - you can only have 100% of anything. Reread your orders and see what the timeshare is.
Second, Regradless what your orders are, there ARE current orders, and if you just move away you will prevent dad from having his time, which violates the current orders which were made by a judge, which will upset the judge, and which is called contempt, and that contempt will be used against you when father sets a hearing to require you to return the boy. Have the hearing before you move.
Third, bring a motion to modify the current orders, and hire an experienced attorney to at least write your motion (because an experienced attorney knows what the court wants to hear and wha evidence to attach), or to also come to court if you can afford it, You will want evidence - not just your say so - to prove to the court what father's real parentiing time has been
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