You can have a lawyer write a letter but courts are very reluctant to interfer in matters involving church doctrine.
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The answer to your question is "no", you have no claim for repayment of a tithe you made to a Church in Virginia. A tithe is a gift, freely given. It is not a contractual payment for services.
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If this was a tithe, it is not likely that you should expect to be able to demand it back. A tithe is not like a car payment or house payment. Churches don't give you control over the church by paying a tithe. The tithe is to the Lord. If you feel that the church has done things you disagree with, you should try and resolve them with the church leaders. If that does not resolve things, then you may choose to find another church to worship in. You would not likely have any basis to sue to the church.Ask a similar question