They can (very easily) pull the IP address of the email - that's something you can't "fake." Once they link the IP address to you, you're caught.
1) Talk to an attorney regarding the contents of the email ASAP.
2) Do not discuss this any more on any other forum. Less said, the better.
3) See #1
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