A gift in contemplation of marriage may be ordered to be returned to you depending on the facts of your case. If you purchased an engagement ring, gave it to her and she agreed to marriage and then cancelled it, you may be able to obtain it back. If she declines to return it you will have to proceed in court. Consult an attorney where you live as to the cost of doing so, as it may cost more in legal fees and filing fees to obtain the ring than its fair market value. And if she refuses to return it, you may only receive a judgment against her which you may not be able to collect on, depending on her financial situation and how her assets are held. Generally you will have to pay your own legal fees in this regards, unfortunately, which makes this sort of litigation sometimes cost more than the item in question. You may also be able to proceed on your own in small claims court/district court depending on the value of the ring and the maximum set by the court.
The law in this issue is unsettled. There is case law that states that the rings are not marital property because they were gifted prior to marriage and there is case law that states that the rings were purchased in anticipation of marriage so they marital property. You will need to meet with an attorney in your area for more specific advice as to what the Judge will do.
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First, I am sorry it did not work out between you both. The law is so unsettled right now that you will need to speak with an attorney to actually view all the facts and see which outcome is likely in your matter. Some case law states that because it was purchased in anticipation of the marriage, it is marital property and can come back to you. Other cases and part of our Supreme Court state that it is a gift and therefore you aren't privileged to get it back. But, speak to an attorney to view all the facts of when you gave the ring to see if you are able to have it returned. All the best.
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