I was appointed the administrator of my aunt's estate in upstate New York. I have signed a retainer agreement with the estate lawyer and papers from the Surrogate's Court. My relative died intestate and didn't have any assets except a dilapidated modular home on a quarter acre lot. She also left many debts. The only guidance I have received from the estate attorney was saying it's my responsibility to sell the property and pay off the debts. I am finding it an extremely stressful situation as the property is virtually unsalable and I'm wearing myself out trying to clean it out. There's not much money to hire it done and I'm a 60 year old woman with health issues and nobody to help me. What can I do to get out of this?