It appears that your father needs a guardian. If you live in the same community as your father, you could peition for incapacity and guardianship and if the examining committee and the court found that he is incapacitated due to alcohol, a guardian could be appointed and he could be sent for treatment. If you do not live in the same commumity, it might be better to have a professsional guaridan appointed. If your father is a "danger to himself" because of drinking, this could work. There should be an agency in MO (or wherever he lives) that deals with children and families who have problems of this type. You can check with a guardianship attorney to see what your options could be. Good luck.