I strongly recommend that she lift the order of protection first. Otherwise, if the fact that you are near her comes to the attention of the police, you would be arrested, whether she wants it to happen or not. Say you are in a car with her and someone rearends you. When to police come to investigate, you will be arrested.
Spending time with her before she gets the order for arrest lifted is a BAD idea.
I am sorry to hear about your situation. You need to get the TOP dropped first so you don't have any more problems.
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It depends on the type of the order of protection. There are two types. The first is a full stay away order: prohibiting all contact between you. The second is a limited order of protection which states you cannot assault, threaten, harass, etc.. If the OOP in your case is a full order then you would be committing a crime with any contact, even if your girl is permitting it. Remember it is the judge who is ordering you to stay away NOT your girl.
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