His petition should be revoked if you divorce, which will make the adjustment or consular processing impossible. It seems that you may seek help to expedite a decision, but it is unclear whether your husband wants to pay a competent attorney to seek relief in Federal Court through mandamus before you divorce.
He may have other forms of relief, so you both need to sit down with a competent and experienced immigration attorney to decide what is best based upon the situation. You want to move on and there is no reason why he should hold you back if he is unwilling to challenge the USCIS based upon the unreasonable delay. Good luck.
This is general information, not legal advice, and does not create an attorney client relationship.
Due to the enormous importance of this issue, I would strongly recommend that you consult an immigration lawyer, whether myself or one of my colleagues, and obtain professional assistance. Good luck to you.
Dean P. Murray
The Murray Law Firm
560 Sylvan Avenue
Englewood Cliffs, NJ 07632
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He must ... and I do mean must ... meet with an immigration lawyer before divorce is filed.
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Have your husband meet with an immigration attorney before he becomes your ex husband.
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