Yes, because a sister petition will take more than 10 years to process ... you can get a J because there is no risk that you'll adjust your status to a greencard during your J.
Plan on going home and make sure there is no 2 year restriction on the J.
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You may find it difficult to prove nonimmigrant intent with an approved I-130.
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It will be necessary for you to prove that you have a foreign residence you have no intention of abandoning and a bona fide nonimmigrant intent. The fact that you have an approved immigrant visa petition is not an automatic disqualifier.
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