Girlfriend and myself fought law got called charges was pressed but don't want them pressed now
Not your call now. Calling the police has consequences of starting a process outside your control. A criminal matter, once begun, is in the hands of the prosecutor. You can express to the prosecutor your unwillingness to proceed, but a) you can be compelled to testify and b) if there is evidence independent of your testimony, they can choose to continue to prosecute. Based on your unwillingness, they can also choose not to proceed. You won't know until you discuss it with the prosecutor.
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If you filed a DVP and no longer wish to pursue it you can simply not show up to the hearing in Family Court and the Judge will dismiss it. However, rather than waste the court's time, it's a better policy to call the victim advocate at the courthouse and let them know that you wish to dismiss it. Good luck.
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