You have to file in a state in which you meet the residency requirement or, under some circumstances, in which your spouse is resident.
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Did you just move to TN from NC? If so, then check with a NC attorney to see if you still qualify to file for divorce in NC. Most states require a six month to one year residency before one is allowed to file for a divorce in that state. Furthermore, the state that has jurisdiction over a custody battle is generally the state in which the child lived continuously for the last six months, or if you just moved, then it would likely be the state you just moved from, if you had lived there for a long enough time period to satisfy jurisdictional requirements for the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction And Enforcement Act. This whole issue surrounding jurisdiction can be answered by an attorney in the state where you plan to move (NC) or by an attorney in the state where you currently live (TN).
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As previously stated, the jurisdiction for custody would be where the child has resided for 6 months. If that was NC (and this is NOT clear from the way you have written your question), then you may want to go back to NC with the child before TN becomes the proper jurisdiction.
NC requirements for divorce are that you resided in NC for at least 6 months AND that you have been separated/living apart from spouse for 1 year prior to filing a complaint for absolute divorce.
Contrast that with TN requirements of 6 months residency and just living apart/separated.
Since you really want to be in NC, I think you should see if you can't get moved back with the child especially if that is where the child resided just before this transfer to Fort Campbell.
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