Your ex-husband should have requested mediation prior to filing for a modification. If you refused the request then it would have been appropriate to seek judicial action. Even though he did not do it properly you cannot ignore the Summons. You must respond within 20 days. My response would be a Motion to Dismiss for failure to meet a condition precedent.
Seek the advice of an experienced family law attorney as soon as possible.
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If you have received pleadings indicating that you have 20 days to represent, most likely they have been filed with the court. You need to hire your own counsel and ask that the court enforce the mediation provision and stay any court proceedings until mediation has been concluded.
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As my colleagues stated - you MUST respond to the summons within 20 days. Please feel free to contact my Orlando office at 407-354-5223 for a free consultation if you are still in need of legal representation. I would be more than happy to assist you.
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