I'm 16 and my boyfriend's 23 and we were caught having sex by the police and he's being charged for statutory rape even though I kept explaining that I wasn't forced to have sex with him. They said something about waiting for three days before we find out if the district thing (i don't know what it's called) decides to file it or just drop it. I just want to know if I, the "victim", and who's only 16 explain and prove that I wasn't raped and that I decided for myself but I'm going to do this without my parents' consent. I s that possible? And if it is, what should I do?