You cannot just decide not to honor the in-place custody and visitation orders. You must go back to court and ask for a modification of those orders based on your new and current information. In fact, the facts you recite here suggest that you may be correct to be concerned, and you may find the court receptive to a significant modification of the orders, but the court will not look favorably on independent disregard of its formal orders. You should see an attorney for assistance in expediting your request of the court for modification of the current visitation and custody arrangements. It is likely that you can get an interim modification, pending a more through consideration of all of the facts and circumstances, in a very short time frame.
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