What your question states does not make legal sense. In a mediation, you would have to agree to something, no one in the mediation can "force" you to do anything and she cannot obtain custody of the minor child without your consent in a mediation. It seems like you should meet with an attorney to discuss your case so that the attorney can ascertain what type of proceeding you had and what exactly occurred. If you just went to the mediation today, I would encourage you to obtain an attorney immediately as there may be things that you can do now to remedy the matter rather than having to appeal. Best of luck to you.
Tami L. Augen Rhodes
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I agree with counsel. Something here does not make sense. How did her lies force you to sign a mediation agreement? Or did you misspeak?
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I agree with the other posters, something doesn't make sense here. A mediator is a neutral third party, not a decision maker. In mediation, the parties come to an agreement, no one makes a ruling. It is an uphill battle to get out of a mediated agreement unless there are duress, coercion, etc. You need to speak with an attorney.
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A mediator is an impartial third party, unlike a judge, who attempts to facilitate a settlement between the parties without a trial. It is quite common for a judge to order that the parties go to mediation. However, the mediator cannot force you to do anything against your will. If he or she is unable to settle a matter that fact is reported to the court, nothing more. It appears from your description that you were involved in some sort of adjudicatory hearing in front of a magistrate and not a mediator. I would suggest that you immediately contact an attorney to see if the ruling can be reversed.
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